Showing posts with label Clayton NM. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Clayton NM. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Readings on the Rio Grande: Annie Proulx

I went to hear Annie Proulx (pronounced Prue and rhymes with true) speak last Monday night at UNM's Woodward Hall as part of the "Readings on the Rio Grande" series ponsored by Bookworks and ABC Libraries.  Couldn’t talk anyone else—niece Jenny nor one of four CNM colleagues—into going with me so, like the Little Red Hen, I did it myself.

Proulx began by reading pages 15-22 of her new nonfiction book, Bird Cloud.  I enjoyed hearing stories from this literary elder in the company of 100-150 other members of the book tribe.  All we lacked was a bonfire, and that was for the best since the lecture hall is equipped with an overhead sprinkler system.

After reading from her book, Proulx introduced the subject of books in general and read parts of a newspaper column on the topic of—or similar to—‘50 things you can do with a book’ as opposed to an e-book.  I thought it odd that she made unfavorable comparisons between the two; after all, both are books, and both require reading.  A more suitable comparison, in my opinion, would have been between books and movies.  (I’m reminded of the statement—I forget who made it—that “There are worse things than illiteracy—such as aliteracy.”)

An aside:  in my online search to find the actual newspaper column Proulx excerpted, I came across this comparison between e-books and traditional books. As this webpage shows, authors earn less money when a reader buys an e-book instead of a hardback book whereas publishers and readers save more money on e-books.  But I sensed that Proulx objects to e-books not out of greed but out of love for bound, print-on-paper pages that hands can pick up, hold, riffle, and annotate.

At the end of the event, Proulx took questions.  Someone asked, “Who are your favorite writers?” and she answered with a long list that—drat!—I wasn’t prepared to write down.  Since she is one of my very favorite writers, I was keen to know from whom she draws her reading pleasure and inspiration.  I remember only these three:
  • Aidan Higgins
  • Dagoberto Gilb, one of the few writers, she said, who write about working class people. (When she mentioned his name, I remembered reading and enjoying a book of his short stories back in the ‘80s or early '90s and hearing him read at a New Mexico State University event sponsored by the English Department when I was a graduate student there.)
  • Francisco Goldman, Guatamalan/Jewish American writer whose wife died in Mexico during a resort vacation three years ago and whose novel, Say Her Name, about the tragedy is being published imminently

I did note that most of the writers on Proulx's list were men, and that makes sense to me since I’ve found her to be a “masculine” writer.  That is, if I hadn’t known her name, I would have assumed that Shipping News and Postcards were written by a man.  Why?  Because the writing is so technically precise and knowledgeable about traditionally male pursuits and because it describes men so insightfully.

Another person asked her if she works on more than one writing project at a time, and she said she did—that when she comes to a hard place in one piece of writing and doesn’t know yet how to proceed, she turns to another.

The last person asked what a typical day of writing looks like for Proulx, and she replied that she has no typical days because she travels so much, admitting that it’s not an ideal situation for a writer.

I bought two of her books and stood in line to get her autograph on them.  I was probably the eighth person in line, and she signed quickly.  As I stood in line, it occurred to me to ask her if she has a favorite aphorism or proverb and, if so, request her to write it above her signature.  (I’m a collector of quotations and sayings, and they often spring into my mouth on suitable occasions:  “A stitch in time saves nine.”  “Better to do and regret than not to do and regret.”  “That which does not kill me makes me stronger.”)  But the question I asked—“Do you have a favorite proverb?”—wasn’t clear enough to express my request.

“No,” she replied.  Pause.  “Do you?”

“Many,” I said, surprised by her question and then realizing she was being polite.  I decided not to take more of her time by explaining myself.

In hindsight, it may be best she didn’t respond with a proverb.  She could have written, “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool that to speak and remove all doubt.”  Or “There are none so blind as those who will not see.”  Or “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.”

As another proverb advises, “Be careful what you wish for.”

One of Proulx’s books that I bought that night was Close Range: Wyoming Stories, a book of short stories that includes “Brokeback Mountain,” which first appeared in the New Yorker magazine and then was made into a movie.  I loved the movie but had never read the short story until yesterday.  As I did, scenes from the movie flooded back to me, and I felt again the pain of Ennis and Jack’s loss--pain that Ennis endures because “if you can’t fix it you’ve got to stand it.”

Proulx spoke of how she came to write “Brokeback Mountain” and her other stories and books, fruits of her choice to write about the lives of people in isolated rural communities.  And perhaps that’s one of the reasons I like her writing so well:  she writes about the kinds of people and communities I grew up in:  Park River, ND, and Clayton, NM.  

Friday, August 21, 2009

August 17, 2009: Our second day in Clayton

In the early afternoon on Monday, Kate took us on a trip up and down Memory Lane. First, she drove us to the house on Cherry Street where we lived when we first moved Our house on Cherry Street in Clayton, NMto Clayton. The house is located across from the Clayton High School Stadium.Clayton High School Stadium and site of the ill-fated school-bus barn

Our house on Maple Street in Clayton, NMNext, Katie drove us to the house on Maple Street where we moved a year later. This sight of this house conjures up memories for me—of my senior year, of my graduation and my present from the parish priest of St. Francis Xavier Church at the time, Father Robert Hammond: a gallon of altar wine that Julaine Hamilton and I drank part of and which turned me off wine for at least a decade. I left home to go to UNM while my family lived in this house, and I got married for the first time and had a small Another view of our house on Maple Streetreception in this house. Also, my son Shane was born while my family lived in this house.

Next, Katie drove us out to Clayton Lake, and Mom remembered the many times when Dee Watters, who had taken her and her kids under her wing as soon as we arrived in Clayton, would pick up Mom and Jason in her car when a storm came up and drive out to her ranch to watch the sky and see how much rain was falling.

Bill Watters, Mom, and KatieFinally, Katie drove us back to town to see if Bill Watters happened to be at home. As luck would have it, Bill was home and came out to Katie’s car to visit so that we didn’t have to get Mom into her wheelchair. Bill is 92 years old, but he doesn’t look it at all. He’s tall and slim, and his only complaint is that he has a condition that makes his feet numb, so Bill Watters, Mom, and Katiehe has to be careful as he walks. He still goes out to his ranch to check on his cows, he said, and is too proud to use a cane, but he does use a staff when he walks in the countryside.

On our drive along Cherry Street earlier, we had passed the houses of sisters Kathryn Vigil Garcia and Margrett Vigil Wagner, my ex-sister-in-law and my daughter Shelley’s namesake. (Shelley's real name is Margrett Michelle.) So when our tour was over and we returned to Kate’s house, I called Katherine—with whom Margrett is now living—to see if I could come over for a short visit. Yes, she said, come over, and I did.

How good it was to see them! Margrett has health problems that require her to be on oxygen much of the time, but she looked good to me, and so did Kathryn. I could only spend about 40 minutes with them because Kate, Gary, Mom, and I were expected soon at Sue and Charlie’s house for supper, but we had enough time to exchange information about our kids and grandkids. And I got to see Margrett’s daughter Lisa’s (Phipps) three sons and meet her son Scott’s wife and two of their daughters in the short time I was there. But drat! I didn’t get any photos.

Sue trying to get Charlie to smileThat evening at Sue and Charlie’s, we visited a bit and took some pictures before supper. Characteristically, Charlie refused to smile despite Sue’s cajoling. Soon we sat down to a meal of some of my favorite foods from childhood: meatloaf, scalloped potatoes, excellent bread with good butter, garden-grown tomatoes and cucumbers, and chocolate pudding with half-and-half or Cool-Whip for dessert. My, it was good. Sue’s meatloaf tasted like the meatloaf my mother used to make, but Mom insisted hers never tasted this good.
Gary, Charlie, me, and Mom
After supper, Sue, Mom, Kate, and I sat around the table visiting while the men did dishes. It started raining then, and pretty soon it started to hail. We went to Hail in Charlie and Sue's front yardthe door, and Gary and Sue left the porch to pick up samples. Sue showed them to Mom, who popped one into her mouth.

The hail lasted for maybe 45 minutes and got to the size of steely marbles, making such a racket on the roof that at one point it was hard to hear people talk. Gary holding a hailstoneSomeone turned on the TV, and we heard that a tornado warning had been issued for Clayton, but it ended soon after that.

When the hail stopped finally, we took advantage of the lull to get into our cars and drive back to Kate and Gary’s.

Mom went to bed not long after that, and Kate and Gary got into the hot tub. I sat in a chair next to the tub (I had cleverly left my swimsuit at home so I wouldn’t have to get into it), and we talked, drank our nightcaps and looked at the stars. The Milky Way spread across the sky, and I could easily find the Big and Little Dippers. Katie asked me about the W constellation, but I couldn’t remember the name of it. Today, I did a Google search and found its name: Cassiopeia.

And soon, after a long eventful day, to bed.

When I woke on Wednesday, I found that Kate in the kitchen pulling some wonderful bran-nut muffins out of the oven. She—svelte thing that she is—ate one plain. I ate both of mine with the requisite amount of butter--that is to say, LOTS--and O! they were delicious!

When Mom got up, the three of us—Gary had already gone to work—sat and talked a bit, Mom and me about to head back to Albuquerqueand Mom continued to look over the pictures and mementos Kate had gotten out for her to see. We were slow to get ready to leave for Albuquerque, Mom and I. We'd had such a pleasant time.

Kate took one more picture of us, and then Mom and I got into my car and took off for town, where I bought gas. Then we headed west on Highway 56 toward Springer.

Four-and-a-half hours later, we were back in Albuquerque. Fred, my cat, had managed to survive my absence with seemingly little distress. He still had food and water in the bowls I’d left outside for him, and he didn’t seem miffed at me when I brought him in for some succulent canned cat food.
Fred

Monday, August 17, 2009

August 16, 2009: Mom and I visit Clayton, NM

Katie, Jennifer, and Gary
While we were in North Dakota, Mom mentioned she would like to visit Katie and Gary in Clayton sometime. So, now that I'm on a three-week break, I decided now would be a good time to make the trip.

Our family moved to Clayton in 1962 because Dad got a job with the Soil Conservation Service (SCS) here. I attended Clayton High School from 1962 to 1964, graduating that year. My sister Katie met her future husband Gary when they were in Mrs. Stubblefield's second-grade class, and they married in 1975. They've lived in Clayton--or, rather, two miles west--since 1981.

Mom and I left Albuquerque at 2:30 yesterday, Monday, and arrived close to 7 p.m. Jennifer, Kevin's wife and Gary's sister, was in the kitchen making fried squash when we arrived. She was the main reason Mom and I came yesterday because Jen was flying to Louisiana early today and will be joining Kevin in Sakhalin next month, so we wanted to see her before she left.
Gary in his garden
Charlie and Sue Alsup, Gary and Jennifer's parents, arrived not long afterward for supper. We had squash and green bean's from Gary's garden, bourbon-basted salmon and steak he fixed on the grill, and lemon rice pilaf and anadama bread Katie made. Oh, and as an appetizer, Kate served cream cheese smothered in raspberry-chipotle sauce with crackers. Num! And I can't forget to mention the wonderful homemade red Sue, Jennifer, and Charliewine Gary took from his racks.

After supper, we sat around visiting for awhile, and then Jen said she needed to leave and get packed for her trip to Louisiana. Charlie and Sue left at the same time, and then perhaps five minutes later, Amy arrived. She'd called her mom earlier and decided to drive from Amarillo, where she's living now, to spend the night here and see her Grandma Lois.

Mom at the dining room table in Kate and Gary's houseThis morning was leisurely. Kate made us bacon and eggs, and Mom and I sat around drinking coffee while Mom looked at some of Katie's many picture albums. She also brought out a couple of boxes of stuff--photos and memorabilia--that she took home with her from Mom's apartment when Mom moved to Rehab Center of Albuquerque. Mom's been looking at this stuff and old pictures all morning and into the afternoon.

A little later, we're going to take a drive out to Clayton Lake and also take a tour of the two houses we lived in here in Clayton: the first one on Cherry Street across from the high school stadium and the second one on Maple Street.

Then this evening, we're going to Sue and Charlie's house for dinner.

Life is good here in Clayton.